A Crazy Week Of Love!

I failed my goal to blog weekly... however I have been busy living in a world of peace, love, happiness, and lots and lots and lots of storms! :)

Since my last blog, life has been amazing! I feel like my old self, the me I was before all of the hurdles I cleared in my path.  I feel more equipped to fight of any toxic energy that surrounds me, and I am more observant and conscious of the relationships which no longer serve me.  My remaining relationships are those which build me up, support me, and allow for me to grow.  It is truly an exciting time!

I have to admit that my path to enlightenment began with a commitment to regular meditation in the morning and evening, and it was a challenge for me to commit. After a week of regular meditation, I began to use deep breathing when I became frustrated with the energy vampires around me.  The littlest things can flip a switch inside me, the worst moments were when I would hear the constant clicking of a pen over and over again.  But the fuel to my fire is ignorant remarks and actions.  I turn on a guided meditation by Gabrielle Bernstein, Wayne Dyer, or Deepak Chopra and I sink into the sensation of my own breathing.  I can remember one distinct moment in my life when I felt the same peace and overwhelming sense of love consume me...it was when I held my first niece for the very first time.  I held her against my chest while she slept and I could feel her breath in and out against my heartbeat.  I will always remember my very first moment with her, and I am blessed now to have two nieces in my life to remind me of those special magical moments of love, giggles, and smiles.

Next, I made a commitment to read www.thedailylove.com each morning before my day begins.  Of all of the daily blogs, I look forward to reading the wisdom that Mastin Kipp has been led to share each and every day.  I feel stronger and empowered by the words which he shares.  I am encouraged by the quotes and affirmations.  It is truly a blessing to be a part of a wonderful community where all are encouraged to love to the fullest.

I also finished reading "Spirit Junkie," by Gabrielle Bernstein.  I was able to focus in on the root issues that had grown in my life, I acknowledged them, and I released them.  I felt like The Grinch at the end of "How The Grinch Stole Christmas."  My heart grew 3 sizes by the time I finished the book.  My kindle has so many highlights, shares, and I have 20 pages of notes with affirmation post-its attached.  My experience was full of an insane amount of growth.

My next step was to gradually change from my irregular Ashtanga yoga practice into a regular Kundalini yoga practice.  My first official 60 minute session was mind blowing, my mind and body have been filled with an endless amount of energy.  It is so hard to explain, it truly is an experience.  It is such a rush and I look forward to my Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays!!

My final step (for the time being) is my studies in "A Course In Miracles."  Spirit Junkie was an excellent jumping off point for the 365 day course, and the text is so enlightening.  I am so excited to see how my life and my mindset changes as I work my way through the course. :)

It truly is amazing how quickly everything can change in life when you choose to be what you want to see in the world, and it is my hope that my family, friends, and those who I come in contact with celebrate how incredible they are and know that they all have amazing potential to share with the world!

As I quoted yesterday,  I plan to "Carpe the Hell Out of Diem, " each and every day!!  

Now I am off to write my Installation Speech for Buckeye Club POWERtalk...Two days until the ceremony and I am pretty excited for 2013-2014.  I have officially earned my Corporate Trainer Certification, and I am in the process of turning in my application for Fellow of ITC.  It is going to be such an exciting year!!!!

Sat Nam!

Sarah

My "Dare To Be Great Moment."

Over the last few weeks, I have been working on myself.  The best way to describe how I felt can be summed up through the scene in "The Dark Knight Rises," where Bruce Wayne is imprisoned underground while being tortured by the light of a world above that is out of reach. 

Rock bottom is a scary place filled with self-doubt, negativity, and anger.  The longer one allows themselves to stay in this place of pain and anguish, the harder it becomes to escape.  Trust me, I have been living for quite a while, I can date it back about ten months.  Negativity is a cancer.  The longer you allow for it to go without treatment, the bigger and stronger it grows until it consumes you and begins to kill your soul.  I am fortunate enough to have an amazing friend who finally said the words aloud, "You have been so negative lately!"  I had been putting in the work over the last couple of months to gain back my happy bubbly positive attitude, however by not acknowledging the negative energy surrounding me made it felt like I was taking 1 step forward, then 2 steps back. (Insert Paula Abdul Song Here).

I am in need of major heart surgery in order to get back to a place of self-love, positive energy, love, and light.  I began to develop a routine to acknowledge all of the issues I have going on, and how I am going to release them from my life.  I started with an experience I faced last year in October/November that involved a "Mean Girl" type scenario in the workplace.  This event shattered my self-esteem and caused me to question all of the relationships in my life.  I cut myself off from the world, fearful of finding out that there were many others who were not truly my friends.  I became a recluse from my social circle, and began to focus on spending the holidays with my family.  Who else can lift you up but your family, especially when you have two incredible nieces who make everything in the world disappear!!

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The next event was a delayed aftershock to my self-esteem.  I returned home from New Year's in Indianapolis to find that my best friend of 19 years had "unfriended" me from facebook without warning.  We had just rung in the new year and not one word regarding the events to come was spoken.  I was devastated, however I let it go and tried to move on without addressing the situation.  Looking back, this was unhealthy...  Why you may ask?  Because a few days later, I received a text message accusing me of talking about the situation with others.  My response came from a place of deep pent up anger, to put it mildly.  The following weeks were filled with anger, vindictive thoughts, then a brief attempt to repair what was broken, followed by an accusation that I once again was talking with others about the repairs which were were working on privately.  

In the end, I realized that I had to sever this toxic friendship regardless of its age.  The reason I was "unfriended" from facebook was because I chose to remain friends with a good friend who my best friend did not like.  I had to ask myself, "was this 19 year friendship worth abandoning a friend who has been nothing but supportive of me since we met?"  Then I asked myself, "Am I the type of friend who would willingly cut ties with a friend because someone else does not like them?"  In the end, I (being the OCD - ADHD - Virgo I am) made a pro/con list outlining our friendship over the last 19 years.  I realized that I had spent the last 6 years of friendship traveling and doing things to accommodate someone else and it was never reciprocated.  My decision became simple.  I had to sever the toxic branch and move forward in my life.  To this day, it is the best decision I could have made for myself.

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I had fallen closer to rock bottom, and to add on to it, I also was not feeding myself any positive energy. I became hooked on reality television, watching the housewives and mob wives tear each other down on a daily basis.  I knew that watching it was wrong, and I totally felt it fueling my hate fire each and every time I turned on the television, but I did not have the strength to pick myself up and do something productive with my life.

My one release was my conversations with my Grandma.  My Grandma and I have become quite close, and it just so happens that she calls me in the evenings to catch up.  This tears me away from my bad habits.  Grandma talks to me about our family history, about old friends who have come to visit, and she lets me know how my Grandpa is doing.  My Grandpa is my heart! When he was well, he was always my biggest supporter, and we had a special relationship.   

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In March, I got an evening phone call that I was not looking forward to.  My Grandma and I had talked in the fall about a large spot that they had found during a routine mastectomy.  This spot had caused a concern during an appointment with her doctor, and this concern led to biopsy, and biopsy led to a breast cancer diagnoses.  It was a tough time for me and my family, even more so when 2 days later my Grandpa was admitted into the hospital.  When I finally arrived at the hospital, I arrived to see my hero hooked up to pretty much every machine that ICU had to offer.  I set aside myself to spend time with my Grandpa.  I listened to the Doctors constantly try to educate us about the life support machines, DNR, and whether or not surgery would be a viable option.  I know my Grandpa, and God has always had a plan for him, and God's plan has not concluded (to this very day).  I found myself realizing how important family and friendship truly is, and I found myself realizing how much I admire the relationship that my Grandparents have.  There are there for each other not matter what, they are the loves of each other's lives, and although my Grandpa may not recognize every one that he sees he knows my Grandma through it all.  The days flew by...Grandpa had surgery, Grandma had surgery, Grandpa improved, Grandma was cleared by her doctor, Grandpa went in and out of the hospital a few more times, and our family bonded and became stronger.  We could finally breath.

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I never really dealt with my feelings, so I picked up my books by Dr. Wayne Dyer.  He is my favorite author, and his words always help me to find comfort.  I began to follow Deepak Chopra, and took a 21 Meditation Challenge, then I took a 15 day Mediation Challenge...I felt good when I was meditating, but I was not applying it to my daily routine.

Then the work incident transpired...  

Because it is an open investigation, I will omit the details, but this specific incident was yet another blow to my self-esteem, my heritage, and my ability to be comfortable not only in my own skin but to feel safe on a daily basis.  I also began to question who in my workplace I am able to depend on because those who I thought were my friends, were discussing my circumstances behind my back.

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This led to my "dare to be great moment".  

I no longer wanted to be negative, angry, and resentful.  I have so much to contribute to the world, and by allowing others to impact my happiness and positive energy, I was becoming a drain on society.

I started by actively reading, "The Daily Love."  I was a member of the blog, but I was not active in reading it.  I can relate to Mastin Kipp and he keeps it real.  I respect that.  Through TDL, I found Gabrielle Bernstein's book "Spirit Junkie" and I was in tears as I read the first few chapters because I could totally relate.  

I felt as though I were beginning to climb out of the pit, and I could feel the light hitting me.  It was my Bruce Wayne meets Batman moment.

I picked up my copy of "The Tapping Solution," and retaught myself EFT.  I began tapping, starting with my work situation, then working my way back through each of the circumstances that had impacted my in a negative and toxic way.  In a two week period of time I began to feel the difference inside myself.  I began a practice of tapping regularly and meditating regularly, and I began to listen to relaxation music at work.  When I felt the negativity begin to slip in, I turned on guided meditations to keep myself in balance.

I have implemented Kundalini Yoga into my daily life, and I plan to implement my old running schedule this week.  I am cutting out unhealthy eating and filled my fridge with fresh farm grown vegetables with a goal to live a gluten free, vegan, healthy lifestyle.

My next step in the journey is a 365 day course named, "A Course In Miracles."  I still have a lot of work to do, but I have reached the top and I can only soar from here.  I know that I will not be able to escape the negativity that surrounds me on a daily basis, but I do know that I am fully equipped to fight the negative energy and to continue to lead a happy life filled with positive energy.

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In closing, I am finding that honesty with myself and those around me is the key to releasing the stresses that enter in to life.  I am going to live a life of honesty, self love, and I am going to contribute to society in a positive light.  I it is my goal to surround myself with those who love life and who are committed to sharing their light with others, and who celebrate all of the wonderful magical gifts of life!

Love & Light,
Sarah

Resources:

The Daily Love
www.thedailylove.com

Gabrielle Berstein, Wayne Dyer, & Deepak Chopra
www.hayhouse.com

The Tapping Solution
www.thetappingsolution.com

A Course In Miracles
www.acim.org

Pre Wild Devine 15-Steps to Relax, Relieve and Restore

Good Evening Followers!

Tomorrow begins a wonderful adventure through Wild Diving, the 15 Day Relax, Relieve, and Restore Program with Dr. Deepak Chopra, Dr. Dean Ornish, and Dr. Andrew Weil.

I have been fighting a long battle against negativity over these last months which has required me to focus in on the fundamentals of relaxation, deep breathing, guided meditation, positive thinking, and tapping.  While I have been focusing in hard on myself, negativity has continues to push toward me trying to break my resolve.  It is my hope, that through the lessons which I am learning, and with the support that I am receiving I can conquer the negative once and for all.

I hope that you all join me in this wonderful 15 day program, learning from a few of the most wonderful mentors in this area.

Namaste.

Sarah

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It has been said, "if anything you're doing in life is not what you should be doing...stop. Life is way to short to continue in the wrong direction, but the longer that you do, the less time you will have to travel in the right direction."

What has been done, cannot be undone.  I have always said that life's greatest lessons are learned by experience and mistakes.  In my most recent lesson, I have learned that I must stop and find my "right direction" because all of my childhood hopes and dreams for my future lie along my path.

I deserve someone who knows my favorite color, who knows what makes me curl up next to him out of love, and what makes me curl up next to him out of fear.  I deserve someone who would travel to the ends of the earth to spend time with me, (or at least want to).  I want someone who is passionate about everything they do, and I will support it 110%, but I also want someone who is just as passionate about me.  I want someone who can spend time with my closest friends and for them to love just as much as I do, and I wanted them to celebrate if we decide to last a lifetime, and I even want for them to stand beside us as witnesses.  I want to have and raise children together, to build a home together, and to grow old together.  I want the complete package, not just bits and pieces as a last minute attempt to fulfill all of my goals.

What I want can be summed up in the lyrics which led me to realize that I am not in the right time, the right place, or with the right person.

I want one thousand years!

Heart beats fast

Colors and promises
How to be brave
How can I love when I'm afraid to fall
But watching you stand alone
All of my doubt suddenly goes away somehow

One step closer

[Chorus:]
I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don't be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

Time stands still
Beauty in all she is
I will be brave
I will not let anything take away
What's standing in front of me
Every breath
Every hour has come to this

One step closer

[Chorus:]
I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don't be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

And all along I believed I would find you
Time has brought your heart to me
I have loved you for a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

One step closer
One step closer

[Chorus:]
I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don't be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

And all along I believed I would find you
Time has brought your heart to me
I have loved you for a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

Friday Favorites, September 9, 2011

September has been such an amazing month for me, and I am looking forward to the journey ahead.  I received an amazing email this evening from the owner of my new house, it appears that we came into each other's lives at the perfect time.  We share the same taste, and she has confidence in my taking care of the home she built. I found out last week that my closing date would be scheduled no later than September 30th, and after that the process took off.  My home inspection was completed within 24 hours, my appraisal will be complete tomorrow, and it appears that closing will be earlier than we thought. VERY EXCITING!!  

After my post last Friday, I was offered the transfer position I had requested with the company. I have 5 more work days (6 counting the OT I am taking advantage of on Saturday) in Auto Claim Central, a 5 day vacation, and then I begin my training in the Claims Retention Unit.  I am looking forward to a new challenge in my career, and continuing to expand on my claim knowledge!!  I met a few of my team members today, and my new department is directly behind the conference room which we use for our POWERtalk meetings (Kudos for no more hiking across the building in 6 inch heels)!!

I have been working tirelessly on my "Positive Strategies" workshop for Regional Council on October 22nd.  It has been a life changing experience for me.  I have literally gone back to my childhood in order to search deep inside myself for the things which make me happy & to find my purpose in life.  I have been making the changes which I feel are necessary to ensure my happiness each and every day!!  I cannot recommend Jon Gordon's books enough, the have turned my thought process around, and have contributed to my attitude each and every day.  Today I gave a condensed version of my speech to work out timing, touch points, and delivery. It went very well, and I have a wonderful support team in my club who I can rely on for feedback and encouragement!

What lies ahead for me, I don't know and I honestly do not care.  I am enjoying the mystery of the unknown, which is a learning process for someone who plans every aspect of my life.  Next week I am heading to Indianapolis for vacation, I am looking forward to quality time surrounded by my very best friends!!  When I return from vacation, it will be a brand new year!!

-S-

Song of the Week:

Quote of the Week:

Favorite Minute of Television This Week:

Want of the Week:

Book of the Week: "Training Camp," Jon Gordon

Movie of the Week: "The Conspirator"

Favorite Achievement: Moving to CRT as a Claim Processor

Project of the Week: "Positive Strategies" Speech

Food of the Week: Taranto's Pizza w/Frank's Red Hot (BA-NANAS!!)

Friday Favorites, September 2, 2011

This weeks has been such an amazing week! The New Moon on Sunday brought peace & happiness into my life, and I feel as though there is not anything or anyone who can bring me down. I am gearing up for a new year, in 19 days, and I am looking forward to a clean slate in my life! I have acknowledged the mistakes which I have made in my past & I am putting them behind me. With the new moon has come new opportunities in my career, I will be setting out on a new journey in Bodily Injury claims in a few short weeks! I am very excited to take on a new challenge at this time! I am also working diligently on my workshop presentation for POWERtalk International Regional Conference on October 22, 2011, while I am also working on the book I am writing.  What I am looking forward to the most, is my vacation in a couple of weeks!! It is going to be a wonderful time to get away!!  I am also looking forward to moving in to my new home, I spent four hours there this evening learning EVERYTHING that I will need to know to be a remarkable homeowner!! =-}  My favorites are short & sweet this week, but they are big favorites!!

-S-

Sarah's Album of the Week: Adele "21"

After 75 days, I have a closing date on my house!!

Friday Favorites

My journey of enlightenment and self understanding has been a great experience so far, I still have some concerns to work through, but I feel more like myself than I have in quite a while.  I am learning that regrets are not a bad thing, if you learn a lesson from them & apply it to your life moving forward.  In my reflection & meditation, I have found many areas of my life where I would have chosen a different path.  The path I chose, led me to where I am today, so it is not a bad thing.    One of the benefits that I stumbled across is my ability & desire to write, so I am stealing an idea from one of my favorite websites and posting Friday Favorites, a summary of all of the things I LOVE about the week!  This is just the beginning of good things to come...I hope you enjoy it!!

 -S                               

                                                             Favorite Music Video:

Favorite Quote

Favorite Picture (Redneck Power Steering, Loss Mitigation)

Favorite Optical Illusion

This Week's Drink of Choice!

Favorite Fridge Find: Ben & Jerry's Mudslide Ice Cream

Favorite Book: "The Shark & The Goldfish," Jon Gordon

Favorite Activity: "Burlesque Movie Night"

Favorite Achievement: 10.46 Mile Long Run

Favorite News: My family was safe & sound following the earthquake!!

Favorite Project: I finished the first few pages of my book, my deadline is December 24th!!

Enjoy your weekend everyone!!